Когда все кругом враги, а Украинцы и Белорусы вообще не народ, просто недоделанные Русские, и вообще Русские самая великая, древняя и мудрая нация. А во всех бедах и нищите народа как минимум 100 лет это всё Американцы, Британцы, Евреи, Пятая колонны, Либералы, Геи, Фашисты, Иностранные Агенты виноваты, не дают великому народу с колен встать.
Кругом враги, в том числе и Казахстан, и Китай, они просто пока нужные враги, да и Беларусь не спешит следовать крымскому примеру. А про Украину вообще говорит нечего, там за одну ночь вся страна превратилась в фашистскую хунту, и ничего что 80% кричащие ура Крым наш даже не могут обьяснить что это значит и собственно в чём этот фашизм заключается, кроме как великий вождь Путин сказал. А выдуманный фашизм в Украине пропорционален и на прямую вытекает из уровня нацизма в России.
Путин превратил Россию в нацистское государство.
Аншлюс уже просзошел,
Что дальше?!
Это самое грустное 9 мая которое я помню, потому что печально не только по тому что было, но и по тому что будет.
Saturday, May 9, 2015
The happiness
Two things will affect your outlook on life in such a way that all other things will be of little consequence regarding how happy you are.
Happiness should not mistakenly be confused with bliss or other momentarily pleasant experiences in the same way love is not the same as sexual attraction.
Unexpectedly, the happiness is in your head, you might have heard this many times, that it's all about how you perceive the situation. Two different people can perceive a situation so that one will be happy or indifferent to it and the other very unhappy with it.
Hearing that it is all in your head doesn't help much though, by hearing it one don't just go - oh, all right, I will be happy about then. It doesn't work that way, because we can't change how we perceive things and change how we feel at will.
How we perceive things and feel about them is to big extent determined by your goals and motivations. There are no explicit goals or motivations that will make everyone happy, and that is good, this way there is multiplicity. They can however be internal or external to you.
Internal thing to you is what you decide, how you perceive yourself, how you want others to perceive you e.t.c. thing usually called ego. Though ego has received a lot of bad reputation recently it is't necessarily so. Unless you plan to live in a monastary somewhere in the east, you probably need it to survive.
External is as it sounds things outside you and your mind and ego.
Now we have a 2x2 grid, on one side, motivations and goals on the other internal and external. Those four combinations will determine how one perceive this world, what one achieves and how one feels about it.
Internal Motivation, Internal Goals: Internal motivation means that you motivate yourself, usually by wanting to achieve certain things, better grades, money, car, house, being better than someone e.t.c. this is usually what is said to the ego talking. Internal goals means that in the end though the thing your want to achieve is to improve yourself, be better then others, have more knowledge, money, better grades, more skills, be more religious e.t.c. This is what is often described when giving ego a bad reputation, because it is easy to see how such personality could be very egoistic and hurt himself and people around if not careful. This kind of people achieve extreme things when it comes to overcoming human limitation, but despite that, there is always room to improve, besides it becomes more difficult with age, and hence increasingly difficult to be happy.
(The wheel)
Internal Motivation, External Goals: External goals is to bring, change or improve something in/to this world. People with internal motivation can decide for themselves to be millioners or to save the forest, become an artist, or whatever their ego desire, and they damn well will get out there and do it, or die trying. This creates great sense of purpose and happiness for a while, but in the end regardless of whether the goal was achieved or not there comes a point where one inevitably thinks if all this effort was worth it, that in the end, whatever motivation your ego have dreamt up, doesn't necessarily make you happy.
(The stair)
External Motivation, Internal Goals: External motivations is inspired by the world, people, ideas. Things around you, things you know, gives you desire to achieve. Internal goals, that is something for yourself. Examples can be people going on different events, festivals, lectures, learning how to do things, exploring the world around but focusing mainly on internal goals, i.e. self improvement often expressed in a form where people buy a lot of stuff they don't need. This is all good and well, but in the end it is often called shallow hedonism and is seldom associated with lasting happiness.
(The mule)
External Motivation, External Goals: You are motivated and inspired by the things around, the world stimulates and motivates you to take action and you do it to change, improve, bring new things into this world, and help others. Therefore motivation, i.e. purpose / meaning is never questioned, it is demanded not by you, but by the world, what can be greater? The things you do and improve, will last for generations beyond and maybe even help the humanity as a whole, which is a great goal. Being on such path, everyday problems seem inconsequential, todays problems doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. Sure things are tough, but it's beautiful outside, I think I'll go and paint a picture. There is happiness to be found all around.
(The path)
Happiness is like fingers, it's nice to have them, but you don't really think bout it, you are busy doing things with them, but if you miss some, you think about it.
Now, I am not sure that changing ones motivation or goal is any easier that any other stupid advice about happiness being in your head, but my intuitive guess that it is. People change all the time, what they like, are motivated by e.t.c. maybe by focusing in a certain direction it is possible to be motivated by, to do the thing, which will make everyone happy.
Happiness should not mistakenly be confused with bliss or other momentarily pleasant experiences in the same way love is not the same as sexual attraction.
Unexpectedly, the happiness is in your head, you might have heard this many times, that it's all about how you perceive the situation. Two different people can perceive a situation so that one will be happy or indifferent to it and the other very unhappy with it.
Hearing that it is all in your head doesn't help much though, by hearing it one don't just go - oh, all right, I will be happy about then. It doesn't work that way, because we can't change how we perceive things and change how we feel at will.
How we perceive things and feel about them is to big extent determined by your goals and motivations. There are no explicit goals or motivations that will make everyone happy, and that is good, this way there is multiplicity. They can however be internal or external to you.
Internal thing to you is what you decide, how you perceive yourself, how you want others to perceive you e.t.c. thing usually called ego. Though ego has received a lot of bad reputation recently it is't necessarily so. Unless you plan to live in a monastary somewhere in the east, you probably need it to survive.
External is as it sounds things outside you and your mind and ego.
Now we have a 2x2 grid, on one side, motivations and goals on the other internal and external. Those four combinations will determine how one perceive this world, what one achieves and how one feels about it.
Internal Motivation, Internal Goals: Internal motivation means that you motivate yourself, usually by wanting to achieve certain things, better grades, money, car, house, being better than someone e.t.c. this is usually what is said to the ego talking. Internal goals means that in the end though the thing your want to achieve is to improve yourself, be better then others, have more knowledge, money, better grades, more skills, be more religious e.t.c. This is what is often described when giving ego a bad reputation, because it is easy to see how such personality could be very egoistic and hurt himself and people around if not careful. This kind of people achieve extreme things when it comes to overcoming human limitation, but despite that, there is always room to improve, besides it becomes more difficult with age, and hence increasingly difficult to be happy.
(The wheel)
Internal Motivation, External Goals: External goals is to bring, change or improve something in/to this world. People with internal motivation can decide for themselves to be millioners or to save the forest, become an artist, or whatever their ego desire, and they damn well will get out there and do it, or die trying. This creates great sense of purpose and happiness for a while, but in the end regardless of whether the goal was achieved or not there comes a point where one inevitably thinks if all this effort was worth it, that in the end, whatever motivation your ego have dreamt up, doesn't necessarily make you happy.
(The stair)
External Motivation, Internal Goals: External motivations is inspired by the world, people, ideas. Things around you, things you know, gives you desire to achieve. Internal goals, that is something for yourself. Examples can be people going on different events, festivals, lectures, learning how to do things, exploring the world around but focusing mainly on internal goals, i.e. self improvement often expressed in a form where people buy a lot of stuff they don't need. This is all good and well, but in the end it is often called shallow hedonism and is seldom associated with lasting happiness.
(The mule)
External Motivation, External Goals: You are motivated and inspired by the things around, the world stimulates and motivates you to take action and you do it to change, improve, bring new things into this world, and help others. Therefore motivation, i.e. purpose / meaning is never questioned, it is demanded not by you, but by the world, what can be greater? The things you do and improve, will last for generations beyond and maybe even help the humanity as a whole, which is a great goal. Being on such path, everyday problems seem inconsequential, todays problems doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things. Sure things are tough, but it's beautiful outside, I think I'll go and paint a picture. There is happiness to be found all around.
(The path)
Happiness is like fingers, it's nice to have them, but you don't really think bout it, you are busy doing things with them, but if you miss some, you think about it.
Now, I am not sure that changing ones motivation or goal is any easier that any other stupid advice about happiness being in your head, but my intuitive guess that it is. People change all the time, what they like, are motivated by e.t.c. maybe by focusing in a certain direction it is possible to be motivated by, to do the thing, which will make everyone happy.
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